ON SOCIAL JUSTICE
by Bernard W. Bail, M.D.
What is the nature of mental
or emotional illness? It can be considered a
disturbance of the psychical
cellular system, a reflection of the system’s
distortions in the personality in all the ways
(or diagnostic codes) known to the psychiatric
and psychoanalytic professions. This is the accepted
definition. Pathology enters the body and its various
systems psychosomatically, disrupting the physical
cellular system as well as the psychical and creating
a dual disequalibrium. People in the field know
this sort of psychopathology is very difficult
to treat. The psychiatrist is usually attempting
to contain disquieting symptoms either to the patient
or to his or her environment, and has traditionally
treated mental illness with drugs, thereby bypassing
the underlying illness in the mind. Meanwhile,
the underlying illness, which may have begun in
the unconscious and spent a long time brooding
there before passing into the body, is left intact.
There are reasons for this. The aim of the physician
is to alleviate or banish pain in whatever way
possible and, by and large, in our culture there
is a greater acceptance of the physical assault
on the body then the mental. Our culture still
does not approve of mental illness, which can only
be treated, at root, by psychoanalysis and the
pursuit of the patient's dreams. Illness does
not appear from nothing, but we are too often content
to treat the symptoms of our illness—to dull
our pain with drugs rather than get to the truth
of it.
The above facts concerning the
etiology must be acknowledged. Our intention
must be to “hold
the fort against the Indians” at any cost.
The question here is: if we accept this etiology,
do we have the resolve or the desire to learn how
to treat mental illness at its root, in the unconscious?
The Mother’s Signature
First and foremost, lies are
what make a person ill, and the very first lie
is the imprint of the
mother—a lie in that it breaks up the integrity
of the infant's wholeness. Lies are harmful
to the person the way a crooked foundation threatens
to wear away at a structure and eventually topple
it. When the infant is imprinted, what happens
is this: the projection of the mother’s unwanted,
unconscious mental parts is placed into the baby's
mind, either before or after birth. At some later
time the person begins to put that unwritten message
into action in his life—in his choices, in
his likes and dislikes—and this determines
what kind of person he will be, what face he will
present to the world. An imprint can be anything
from: “I am ugly and must remain a failure,” to “I
will never love, that is be attached, to anyone
except my mother,” or it can be “You
must always take care of me before anyone,” or “You
are never to learn anything, and you are never
to receive any help from anyone who might want
to help.”
The imprint is unconscious and so determines the
fate of us all, since all human beings are born
to mothers with minds, hearts, and experiences
that they bring to the conception, delivery, and
rearing of their children. Further lies or distortions
add to the increasing complex, noxious psychical
influences.
Let me explain. Children are told they are loved.
Of course, they are also told they are hated either
in action or verbally. The evidence is that, at
least unconsciously, very few children are loved.
Here is a lie that is nearly always overlooked: Yes,
my mother loved me. When a mother or father
tells children lies, consciously or unconsciously,
these lies begin to mold the child's perceptions
of himself and the external world. It is easy to
see how a distorted vision of the real world will
compel the child to constantly misread the world
of reality.
Such children will misread people
and what people say. Their touchstone will forever
be the mother
who bore them and to whom they are loyal even if
this loyalty kills them. The child or infant in
the adult will always respond non-verbally to these
life giving and life saving figures in his life....
the mother. The more lies that are told to these
children or adults, the more they will misinterpret
reality. And later in life people of importance
come forward with lies or half-truths. These adults
who are weakened at their foundation will transfer
to their leaders that unexamined loyalty and will
go to the wall for them. Unscrupulous leaders,
charismatic figures know this intuitively and misuse
the weaknesses of these people who will give up
everything for security. In these people's
minds security is equivalent to survival.
It usually takes a long time
to get to a person's
imprint. There is much that has to be unearthed
bit by bit. These bits, by which I mean the stuff
of life, have to be carefully sifted and relayed
to the patient and each bit of stuff has to be
translated correctly. When this is done the patient
will feel the truth of the interpretation in his
gut as well as in his mind.
For example, a man who has a
recent disability dreams that someone he does
not know has stolen
his mirror. He finds the man and complains. He
wants his mirror back. The problem in reality is
that, at this time, the patient’s wife has
to leave him to take care of her mother in another
city. He recognizes the necessity for his wife
to take care of her mother, and knows that without
his wife’s help her mother will die. Knowing
this intellectually is fine but it does not respond
to what is deep within him: the knowledge that
his mother did not love him or his father. Until
he got into psychoanalysis, he strove valiantly
to make a life with friends and a variety of disciplines
that supported him, but was never able to truly
love or be loved.
Now with much work having already
been done and after hearing his associations,
one of which was “Mirror,
mirror on the wall,” it was not too difficult
to say, “Then, yes, who is the fairest of
them all? Certainly not you.” When he
needed somebody at his side, his wife was not there.
Even though intellectually he knew that she loved
him, emotionally he felt abandoned. Infancy with
all its pain and helplessness was rearing its head,
giving away the mirror—that is, the one inside
himself—so that he would not see the truth.
And, understandably, what child wants to understand
that truth when his life depends on a person who
does not regard him as the beloved? The patient's
pain was sharp and deep. The nature of his imprint
was such that he could not be loved by anyone.
It was crucial to tell the patient the truth of
his life; without this truth, he could never form
a true foundation where he can properly love any
woman or let a woman truly love him
Mankind has held and still holds
a fiction in its belief that the place we come
from (Eden) is
pure and the place we go to is a better place than
where we are, where we suffer to a lesser or greater
degree. There is no doubt in my mind that this
lie and others are the main cause of emotional
illness, and contribute to it as life goes on.
If we accept that we come from a place of divinity,
a place of absolute purity, it is clear that the
infant receives its first blemish when it receives
the mother’s unconscious message. It is how
all of us “leave Eden.” All further
insults to the person mental, emotional or physical
will fall in line with this initial trauma, this
imprint.
The Truth is the Cure
Fundamentally, the cure is rather
simple. It is telling the truth, knowing the
truth and living
the truth. It is telling the truth to the afflicted
person in a way that allows him or her to assimilate
the truth gradually. It is only gradually that
the organism, or individual, can come to see the
profound complication of his/her mother’s
imprint and the distortion on the personality perpetrated
by it. Like a pebble thrown into still water, the
circles fan out endlessly. The organism resists
the truth at first, since it experiences the correction
as a foreign body.
The more ill the person, the
more intense are the imperceptions and the more
intense the negation
of the interpretation. This is another way of talking
about resistance. When discussing truth, the philosophical
buff will say “Whose truth?” Close
investigation will tell any scientific investigator
that there is no moral relativism in the unconscious,
just as there is no question about E equals MC
squared or 2 plus 2 equals 4. The imprint is not
the truth. The patient feels it is the truth and
lives as if it were something to die for. The imprint
is the lie that the mother unconsciously puts into
the child.
The whole issue of moral relativism
springs from the intellect, and it is the intellect’s
clever way of rationalizing whatever it wishes
to rationalize. We in psychology know that rationalization
is another face of lying. In the reservoir of the
unconscious, there is one truth, the real truth,
and there is no hedging of that. It is this fact
that makes the unconscious so hated and feared
an entity. Depending on your point of view, it
is both dreadful and awesomely beautiful, and so
it has been seen by the great sages and poets of
mankind.
Social Implications
When lies are disseminated by
other members of the family, by teachers, by
the media, by inaccurate “historical” truths,
by the officials governing our cities, states,
and countries, they aggravate the existing state
of psychic pathology. It is clear to me that anyone
who knowingly puts forward untruths or ambiguities
that nourish these programs is adding to the emotional
illness of a population. As it is true of the individual,
so it is true of the state, multiplied to the nth
power. The mass unconscious is riddled with illness
and confusion, with paranoia and doubt...in a word,
with all the conditions that afflict the individual
about his or her future. Unscrupulous leaders take
advantage of these states of mind. We hear political
leaders say, “Let's put (whatever atrocity
one wishes to mention) behind us and get on with
it.” I can attest that is not possible, not
at all. If it were, all mental illness would be
amenable to a similar remark.
Traumas—or lies, as enacted upon the mind—rest
in the unconscious like radioactive seeds from
which all destructive renderings upon self and
upon others emanate. These have to be released
and aired and whipped off the table by hard analytical
work, and so it must be with other worldly catastrophes—injuries
of war, genocide, etc. The laws of karma—a
universal accounting law—hold sway, no matter
what any one individual or group decides. One only
has to look for this leveling that happens in every
individual's life and in the global political
realm.
Simply put, in the end the cure is telling the
truth, adopting the truth, and living the truth.
When a person does not do this, there will be dislocations.
When the national or international body politic
does not live by the truth, these dislocations
in the mass unconscious will have repercussions
like those in the individual mind. If leaders wish
to engage in war under false pretense, there will
be greater dislocation in the world body. Guilt
will accrue and weigh down the mass unconscious
in illness, depression, guilt, and paranoia.
One is told to forget and move on. The fallacy
is that one cannot forget and move on. Try to tell
that to a person who is emotionally afflicted.
It does not work, and so it will never work in
the larger segments of mankind. Every lie, every
distortion, every ambiguity has to be exposed and
acknowledged, and paid for emotionally. This is
the universal law of karma, the law of action and
consequence. Insofar as mankind forgets it, it
will have to pay for its indiscretion in forgetting.
In a word, what is true for the individual is equally
true for the nation and the world.
Social justice for me is, then, based on the constant
adherence to and love for the truth. It is the
knowledge that the truth brings the greatest rewards
for one and all.
Copyright © Bernard W. Bail, M.D. 2005
May 2005
(WB2005)
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