The Challenge of Change
by Bernard W. Bail, M.D.
INTRODUCTION
Never,
in the world as we know it, has there been the global unrest that we see
recently. The media keeps us informed about all aspects of the world. In the
Middle East people are rebelling against the dictators or monarchical tribal
leadership that no longer serve the needs of the people. In Indonesia and
environs there are outbursts of unrest. In the Far East, Japan is struggling
with the aftermath of a tsunami and a nuclear plant breakdown. The usually
compliant people are restive. How much corruption has contributed to
accentuate the disaster of the flood? China alone stands without open
rebellion, though the masses in the hinterland are not doing as well as urban
dwellers where all the emphasis seems to be on catching up and overcoming the
United States. Can it be that it does not know that catching up and overcoming
will be easy? To what end? The same rise and fall we are witnessing in this
country now will ultimately befall them.
Europe
is in jeopardy. Does any monetary system work on the premises upon which they
have constructed their monetary system? There are always the economists and
the accommodation of big business and the really rich to tout capitalism which
is by now a cynical gesture. Since the bailout of the banks by the people of
the United States, it is clear that capitalism, so noisily advertised by
business, does not work. The juggling goes on and it will continue until
someone recognizes that all these failures have a common substrate - smart
people with astonishing IQ’s but with no knowledge of their unconscious where
everything really important is born and based and must be known to the
conscious mind for intelligent action. If this is not so, the planners are
going on sheer intellect – really guessing how a plan will work – and one must
realize it is only a guess whatever charts are brought to verify any
principle. The principles developed by these intelligent people have
ultimately to be carried out by people and people who do not know their
unconscious are usually immature and troubled. This unknown factor leads to
all kinds of unwise actions. Such mistakes made in mass effort in the Euro
zone will bring any clever enterprise down especially since not only Europeans
are involved in the plan, but the Far East and America are also involved.
After all, we know looking back, that bank failure rattled the markets around
the world.
It
is axiomatic that the makers of policy are the leaders or the people who the
leaders have picked to advise them. Then we easily come to those who are
considered the money men surrounding these leaders, as Obama surrounded himself
with people who have deep Wall Street connections. It is interesting that at
this time in America almost all of the members of Congress are millionaires.
It is highly unlikely that any economic policy would do harm to the very rich
and it is to be expected that any forthcoming policy to balance budgets here or
anywhere will fall on the middle class and the poor. Any such policy will be
sold as a patriotic duty. I wonder, in these turbulent and knowledgeable
times, how long that tune play.
I
see the ferment in this world agitation as a good sign. There has to be
agitation before structures fall down. However it is not easy to endure the
process. In Egypt a revolution prevailed only to find that the people
discovered that the old elements wished to hold on to their power. In Syria we
find the same as in Bahrain. The shaking will continue. It is now inevitable.
Here
in the United States the movement has just begun. Occupy Wall Street is
maintaining it’s strength and purpose and it is growing. When more trouble
arises and hits more people, which is inevitable, there will be further
increases in this movement. When the middle class learns it is to be burdened
and further deprived, which I am sure will go along with cries of patriotism,
the propaganda that has been fed to the American people will be
more
evident and, as the governor of New York recently remarked, “the people have
been quiescent for 30 years, passive and dumbed down. They are waking up.”
In
this essay I wish to present the dreams of the old man from my essay “Venice
Beach”. He has been a bellweather person on the political frontier, as well as
my patient Dr. D who is coming to a new understanding of himself. Rather I
should say Dr. D’s dream is foreshadowing the change he will be undergoing.
There
is to be a change with the nature of the feminine unconscious. Here I would suggest
to any interested person to read my essay “A Call To The Feminine Paradigm”.
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I
am reporting the dreams of the old man of my essay “Venice Beach”. He has been
doing his analytic work. He spends his days mostly alone on the beaches up and
down the coast. He likes Venice Beach the most because of the people walking
about, the honky-tonk atmosphere, the palm readers, the psychics, the jewelry
makers. He likens the scene to town fairs in the Europe of long ago and he
feels that the fairs in those days were not dissimilar to what he can view at
the beach. He would only have to add when folk of all kinds gathered, with
more or less the same composition, to trade in farm commodities and featuring
livestock.
Mostly
he sits and looks out to sea. He meditates. He lets his mind go freely, at
times he dozes off. He does not fight this loss of conscious mind. He is not
afraid if he slips away. This is a daily routine. He does not pretend to any
yoga practices. By this he means he has no system to teach anyone, no
students, no disciples. It is simply what he does.
The
old man said.....
DREAM
“I
was a psychiatrist in my dream, like you, and I was seeing in consultation
Donald Trump. I was using my friend’s office at UCLA. My friend is dying of
Parkinson’s disease. Nonetheless in the dream I was using his office. I was
aware that the office was comfortable, big and sunny. I felt comfortable
waiting for Trump to make up his mind. I learned he was not a billionaire,
only a millionaire. He acknowledged he was faking a lot of the stuff he was
saying in public. The dream ended that way.”
The patient continued to talk about Donald Trump and the
fake person he was, exploiting issues that had been put to rest and drumming up
the worse elements of American society.
Patient:
You know I do follow the politics of the time.
Dr.
B: I think, according to what you have said in the past several weeks and what
you are now saying, that your friend who is dying is representing the old
system. The old system is dying and perhaps that stands for the academic
system at UCLA that is dying. It is very comfortable so it will not go away
willingly or soon. It is still too comfortable for a lot of people.
Patient:
What about Trump?
Dr.
B: I have no idea and you know I have no use for him. He is just a blowhard
and a foolish man.
Patient:
It is incomprehensible why the media makes so much of him.
Dr.
B: What you say is true but I think he stands for the mass unconscious, the
intellectual primacy that has ruled the world for thousands of years. It has
got to come to the realization of it’s falseness and it has got to openly
acknowledge that it has come to the end of the road.
The
patient continues.....
DREAM
I
see an engine floating in the ocean. No one knows what it is for.
We
fish it out and decide to decode it even though the “other side” may have had a
device on it that was recording our activities.
Patient: This sounds like science fiction. If I did not
know better I would say it doesn’t mean anything. I do look at the water a
lot. I can tell you about the water, about the waves, about the motion, about
the times and the variety of colors of blues, grays, greens and the whitecaps.
It is dazzling and hypnotic. I can tell you about the ships I see on the
horizon and the small figures surfing. The science fiction boys are not bad.
They sometimes have it right, more right than anyone and before anyone. And
they do this in their intuitive way. I have a hunch about what you might say.
Dr.
B: What’s that?
Patient:
You will see this as a sign of God and, if it is in the water, the unconscious,
the engine of the unconscious giving us information.
Dr.
B: I agree. That is exactly what I would say. And further I think the engine
is so designed as to pick up “our activities” and
“remit”
those activities in whatever way that is done to the higher entity, the Divine
Feminine. Since you were dreaming of a woman last week, a whistle blower
called Maryann, I would shorten that to Mary, or Divine Mother, also linked to
the Divine Feminine unconscious, which over the millennia has been so
battered. It is now revealed as a pathetic, ugly entity that is frightening.
All of your narrative gives me the idea that something is afoot in the world
not only in your mind but in you. It is as if you were channeling for the mass
unconscious for the feminine unconscious.
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The
following is dream of Dr. Dombrowski.
In it he is in a city in Canada. He said he had sent
away his military uniform that was a copy of Napoleon’s. He was to wear it at
a celebration, a ceremony. When he gets it back he realizes it is too small
for him. Napoleon was a small man.
He
is non-pulsed by the dream. He has always admired Napoleon especially his
exploits in war, especially his conquest of Europe. The patient was in this
city to see his daughter and his grandchild. His ex-wife lives there too. He
is thinking also of stopping with his girlfriend. He finds she is not suitable
for him at this time. She is no fun and was no fun on this vacation. He
recalled being in Paris with his family visiting the Arc d’Triomphe. and the
Champs d’Elysee.
Dr.
B: So why is the uniform so small.
Patient:
I don’t know.
Dr.
B: Obviously you cannot wear this uniform. Is it no longer a time for war?
The uniform is too little as war is too little an avenue to solve the problems
of our times or your personal problem.
Patient:
Maybe I have sent the uniform to be cleaned of all the bad things wars have
brought and I am talking not only about world wars but also my personal war in
this lifetime.
Dr.
B: I like that and I hope so. Remember your attraction to war, to Hitler and
what he did early in World War II. He seemed invincible like Napoleon.
However, with what we know, is there not a likeness to your father who was
another Hitler at home. Remember your wife was against you at a certain point
after your divorce and threatened to sue you, which might have lost you your
medical license. Moreover she persuaded your daughter to testify against you.
This woman is capable of a ruthless war.
Patient:
Yeah, but I was nice to her and she was nice to me.
Dr.
B: There is now no need for war there or anywhere. The time for this solution
has gone except where people are fighting to obtain their freedom and the
rights every human being should have. Besides last week we have been talking
about your grandmother and what a lifesaver she was for you.
Patient:
Yeah. (And he began to cry as he often does when he invokes her image and her
love for him)
Dr.
B: The strange thing is that in the history of civilization it is nearly
always men who are remembered. Statues are made in their honor, obelisks are
made in their honor. Their exploits are written about. Where are the women in
human history? Not much in evidence. Strangely enough the only place where
one can find a group of women who have excelled so that their names are
memorialized are the women saints of the church.
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The
old man continued with his dreams......
DREAM
There was a bomb maker. He had made a new bomb. It was
like a section of a wrap (the sandwich). He worked in an office building and
after would return the bomb with some change. For example silver dollars or
dollar bills. I thought he was really the mastermind in the operation.
Patient: Here, Dr. Bail,
I really can’t help you at all.
Dr. B: Well, tell me
about a bomb.
Patient: They blow you
up.
Dr. B: True, but what if
they blow up your mind metaphorically as in the expression “it blows my mind”?
Don’t you think the minds of people have to be blown “especially at the top”,
to get them to think very differently from how they have been thinking? The
bomb has the secret information enfolded in a wrap, like a wrap enfolds the
food.
Patient: Ok, I can see
that. So let me tell you the dream I had following that one.
DREAM
I was at the doctor’s office getting a check up on my
eyes or my hearing. The nurse in the office was young, in her mid-twenties,
and very attractive. I felt she was very attracted to me. She touched me
while she was carrying out the doctor’s orders. My head began to spin. I
thought how could she be attracted in this way to an old man. I must have
awakened to stop the whirling in my mind.
Dr. B: (laughing) I know
what you mean. Old people don’t get much of that kind of signal anymore but I
think your dream is not about the vicissitudes of love. The girl represents
how attracted you are to a new way of hearing and seeing the reality in which
you are living.
Patient: Thanks. I was
worried about where that was going. So, Dr. Bail, let me tell you one more
dream. I have to beg your indulgence. I may be stretching you too much.
Dr. B: No, you can tell
me the dream. I am here to be stretched.
Patient: OK
DREAM
I am walking with my friend in my childhood
neighborhood. My friend says you have been hurt here, physically. Don’t you
want to move? I say, “I can’t move until I am sure I don’t have to come
back”. And then despite my age I am skating and balancing myself all very
carefully and then I am standing on a pole four feet off the ground. I am very
balanced until I jump down easily and safely.
Patient: I did move out
a long time ago so I am not sure what that means. Obviously it is not a
literal thing. I did get hurt physically but all of us as kids got hurt one
time or another, but nothing serious. I did skate when I was a kid. I could
balance myself perfectly and even played hockey on skates. I don’t think I
could do that on skates today. Certainly I could not maintain my balance on a
pole but I could in the dream. I did it all slowly and carefully.
Dr. B: The fact that you
stand on a four-foot pole means you are in control. You are the master – in
tarot terms – of your worldly development. Four likewise is the number of the
emperor so you are completely in charge of your environment. I think this
dream is really about a spiritual meaning. I think it is on the earth plane
that you are talking about and you are saying you do not want to pass in this
lifetime until you have completed your karmic debt. To go then, after
completion, you would not have to come back. Is that what you are aiming for?
Patient: I guess so. I
like that. I like the feeling, sitting, looking seaward, losing myself. What
else do I have to do here?
COMMENTARY
The old man’s dreams
reveal a personality in change. I think he is unusual in that he was older in
coming to this work. Also he really wanted to change. Desire is important.
Most of us, including the
patient, are too much in the grip of the law of inertia. We learned this law
in high school physics. All physical bodies obey this tenet, “bodies at rest
tend to remain at rest”. Psychologically the parallel would be the unconscious
maternal imprint by which all of us are stamped. That’s the parallel. It has
all the characteristics of the physical law except it can be overcome but not
without a great struggle within the psyche. A person undertakes this fight
when life in the outside world has become so difficult that it is a necessity.
The imprint is certainly
consistent with the adage “let sleeping dogs lie” since the fact is that
hitherto the existence of a maternal imprint has been unknown. It indeed has
been asleep these many thousands of years. We can and do research earlier
peoples. We find the Romans, the Greeks, the ancient Egyptians and the Chinese
were much like us. People are the same whatever the color of skin. Genetic
research has come to the same conclusion.
People have a tendency to
reject, say no, to new invention until they see the value of it for
themselves. Physical inventions, for example the computer, the iPhone, the
Blackberry, can ultimately sweep the world. The young, who are not yet so
indoctrinated, go for it. But addiction to these instruments also eventually
creates a stasis. There is no inner inquiry. The focus is to the outside
world. The focus now for everyone has to be on the internal world.
The key is that an
external technical invention ultimately becomes a distraction from the real
work at hand, which is to start to move the unconscious – “the great within”.
Psychoanalysts know that
the task, when it begins, sets in motion powerful defense mechanisms like
splitting and repression. To pictorialize splitting in concrete terms, it
would be splitting off a piece of an object and then totally ignoring it. It
no longer is a part of the original piece - splitting off a part of the mind,
which then no longer is felt to be a part of the mind. Psychologically it
works. Repression is considered to be a downward force keeping everything at
bay. Ultimately we are talking about horses, which imply energy. The more ill
a person is, the more energy they expend to keep the “dreaded knowledge at
bay”. These people feel enervated. All patients report, as time goes on,
being more alive and having more energy as defenses no longer have to be used
to keep early infantile traumatic knowledge away.
At bottom the maternal
imprint and its guardian, the inner saboteur, do all they can to prevent
inroads being made into the psyche and earlier and earlier traumatic events
being understood or revealed. This is because the initial shock of the maternal
imprint in fetal life is so severe it is split off and shielded. In working to
this point the internal saboteur will pull every trick to avoid a final
confrontation, a final conclusion. That final conclusion would be its demise.
As we see changes in our
world today, people protesting in some way, psychologically the protest is
against the parents who raised them. The government, whether it is the
President, the Prime Minister, the Dictator, in the psyche is felt to be the
powerful parent. People will take a lot of bad stuff from their leader because
it reaches into the farthest recesses of survival itself. The fetus knows its
survival depends on the mother. In this respect, all leaders are, in the
deepest and earliest psyche, the mother.
Children have to forget a
lot in the course of growing up since so many mistakes are made unwittingly or
unknowingly that traumatize the child. The leaders “get a pass”, even bad ones
who have created havoc. After a few years, they are once again revived and
even idealized. Look at Stalin and Hitler. It happens in our country as
well. I leave it to the reader to think of who it might be we have
resurrected.
Since change is hard to
come by, we might rightly think that a profound change might be very hard to
come by. I think the profoundest change that civilization has to make at this
time is the change from the masculine principle to the feminine one. It will
be especially difficult since women have been so abused for so long. The
feminine unconscious at this time is a very disfigured one.
It will require all women
to recognize their qualities and to take possession of them so that men do not
dictate to women what should be their natural right, their own voice over their
bodies and souls.
In this respect I heard
an anecdote from a patient who is a filmmaker. So is her husband. In talking
to the woman who was the MC for a recent meeting, she told my patient, “We have
to be known by what we do and who we are. Not as somebody’s wife”.
Accordingly minutes later the woman introduced my patient’s husband, and did so
quite easily, and then introduced my patient as his “wife”.
In this vein, it will
only be when people stop voting their unconscious idealized internal imprint
that we will stop getting leaders who take advantage of the people in every
possible way. Politicians and political pundits know this arc. They do not
know why or how it works.
I have explained why.
My commentary has been
about why real change is so difficult. In this context I understand that since
these ideas are not well known, let alone within the psychoanalytic community,
they cannot be put to a test. The profession is struggling with old
principles, old knowledge, ageing practitioners and a diminishing flow of new
blood and a great disavowal by the general public that psychoanalysis has
anything to offer.
There has to be a change
because hitherto the only paradigm has been the Freudian paradigm, a masculine
one, a paternal one. It is understandable that analysts cling to his teachings
as if it were piece of driftwood that allows them to hang on in a menacing
ocean. The feminine paradigm contains much more and opens up great realms for
discovery, all to effect great changes in oneself and in the world of people.
POSTSCRIPT
I said to the patient,
“How do you feel about where you are at this time”.
Patient: Considering
where I was when I came, I feel good. It has been a good run and interesting.
Maybe because I am old and am not so concerned with the outside world. I am not
concerned with the tumultuous passions of my younger self. Love, passion,
rejection, pain – it has all gone away. However, I am concerned with the world
and the mayhem everywhere. I never thought I would see what I see. I think
the world leaders are really at the end of their rope. After all what are
people afraid of?
Dr. B: Yes, what are
they afraid of?
Patient: Mostly pain,
physical pain, like being sick or tortured, or mental pain, as in fear. I have
known pain from illness and pain from the fear of dying. It is terrible,
beyond description. Yes, there used to be pain that comes with love and
rejection, the ups and downs of love, hardly tolerable. I am done with that.
I am not bored with my life at all. Best of all I am not afraid, not even of
dying.
Copyright © Bernard W. Bail, M.D.
November
2011
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