THE GREAT UNWINDING
by Bernard W. Bail, M.D.
INTRODUCTION
Paul Krugman in the Opinion section of the New York
Times writes, "When I was young and naive, I believed important people
took positions based on careful consideration of the options. Now I know
better. Much of what serious people believe rests on prejudice, not analysis,
and these prejudices are subject to fads and fashions.”
He continues to write about his amazement and horror
at the emergence of a consensus in policy circles in favor of immediate fiscal
austerity. He is against this and advances his reasons. However, my essay is
not about economics per se; it is about strongly held beliefs and assumptions
and those who hold them, who are convinced that they are true.
The history of mankind is replete with instances when
certain beliefs which were considered the truth of the time have been proven
wrong, dead wrong, but too late for the victims of these beliefs.
The era of the Inquisition is one such example of a
group in power that exercised the power of a belief then held inviolate. The
Puritan times in the United States, in which hanging and burning were
prevalent, is another example of murderous behavior toward possibly ill and
innocent women.
Upon reading Krugman, I thought about his initial
statement when he advances external arguments to defend his theory. I happen to
have respect for a Nobel Prize winner, assuming he got that prize with a great
deal of rigorous thinking and coming to some vigorous conclusions which a great
number of his colleagues agreed with.
However, besides the short list of reasons above, even
more important than the external facts that Krugman offers is the silent
glacier under the surface of the water, the unconscious. Even more
important than the external reasons, an investigation of the individual’s
unconscious would find the real reasons for any one person's external beliefs.
As a matter of fact, my research leads me to think that external beliefs are
found or fads are followed to satisfy deep unconscious ideas. These ideas have
been developed and arrived at by early fetal and/or infantile trauma. The
broken ego that results is the main character which finds what it needs in the
external world to satisfy these deep internal and unconscious drives.
With that said, I would like to present a session I
had with a patient who you will remember from my previous essays “The
Awakening” and “The Consequence of Union Upon Reunion.” The session has a very
interesting complexion. I will let the session speak for itself.
DREAM – July 1, 2010
In my
dream, I am my agent. I have never dreamed of being him before. I enter a room.
The room is round and tall and made of brick and very ancient. In this room are
a number of people. They are men and women, dressed in business attire. I am
also in a suit—my agent always wears a suit. All of the people in the room walk
slowly in a circle around and around a central cistern. The cistern is filled
with a shallow depth of water. They are moving counterclockwise. It all seems
very ancient and ritualistic, like something the Catholic monks would have done
as devotion in medieval times.
I approach a young woman—she is in her twenties, very pretty, very smart,
dressed in a white business suit with a skirt and white high heels. She reminds
me of Lois who I worked with in the 90’s—a very sharp, astute, poised
“D” girl in Hollywood.
I realize, suddenly, that I am working for her. This
is my new job. She has been made the president of the film studio. She is the
youngest woman ever to be made president and it has been considered a risk to
do so in the Hollywood community.
I admire her though and want her to succeed. I
approach her and fall in step with her, moving counterclockwise around the
circle, along with everyone else.
I say something like “Reporting for Duty.” She smiles,
teases me chidingly, saying, “Have you been able to do what I asked?” I know by
this she means that I need to keep to HER pace, not mine. I need to learn to
walk more slowly and talk more slowly. I must go at her pace around the circle,
not always getting ahead of her. I say, “I’ve thought about it. I believe that,
ultimately, I can do both, but for now, realistically, I can only try to walk slower. To talk slower is beyond me.”
She smiles and seems to accept this. “Okay, what have
you got?” she says. (This is the kind of things executives in Hollywood studios
are always saying.) I say, “I’ve got a great idea—you like the comedienne Margret Cho, and you like
the action star Michelle Yeoh. In fact we have them both under contract.
Well,” I suggest, “What if we team them up in a buddy cop movie?” She is disappointed. “Is that the best we can do?” And with that she walks off. I
am chastised. But maybe my idea is cheesy. I realize I’m going to have to work
harder.
ASSOCIATIONS
Doctor Bail, as always, asks for my associations. I
tell him I think it’s interesting I am my agent in the dream. He gets me work.
He is a good guy—honest, and he believes in me and he has gotten me a lot of
work over the years. But, I assume, he is in no way a spiritual man. He is a
company man and I know that. At the end of the day, the agency is more
important to him than I am. I succeed with him by fitting my needs into the
agency’s needs. So far so good. My work of late has been steady. Still—I like
my agent.
Over the years blonde young women have appeared in
many, many of my dreams. Doctor Bail associates them, relentlessly, with my
feminine unconscious. So, this should be no different. The difference here is
she’s been put in charge of the studio. She’s the boss and I work for her. That
dynamic never existed in my dreams before and I take it as a positive.
Lois, as I said, was a woman I really admired. She was
smart and pretty and pleasant. My assumption is that she would do well in life,
although I don’t know what became of her. It’s significant that I want to work for her.
Dr. Bail asks about the round room and the walking. It
seems spiritual to me—a ritual. Moving in a circle is the way of God’s energy.
I’ve come to believe that all energy in God’s universe rises and falls in a
spiraling circle. Also, I mention to Doctor Bail that my study of Kundalini
teaches me that clockwise circular movement indicates rising energy or
CREATION. Counterclockwise circular motion indicates unwinding or DESTRUCTIVE energy.
So, the people in this room move in a way that indicates deconstruction.
The people are business people, walking around a
cistern filled with shallow water. I know water always represents the spirit
and the unconscious, but, otherwise, the association of this stumps me.
Bail asks about my movie idea. The woman likes both
Margret Cho, a gay Chinese comedienne, and Michelle Yeoh, a mature female
Chinese action star. (She was the female lead in “Crouching Tiger Hidden
Dragon.”) So, I think to put them in an action movie. Like Eddie Murphy and
Nick Nolte in “48 Hours” or Arnold Schwarzenegger and Jim Belushi in “Red
Heat,” team up a comedian and an action star in an action-comedy move. It is a
formula of the 80’s and 90’s—and Dr. Bail points out it’s a tired idea even if
I’m putting Chinese women in it.
Dr. Bail finally sums up: “I believe your dream is
indicating that it is time in the history of mankind to unwind the masculine
paradigm. And, would it surprise you to learn that, I have had three patients
in one week who have dreams of this nature? There have been three dreams of an
unwinding, of a time to tear down the masculine and begin to build up the
feminine. That is the obligation of the age we are entering.”
“You associate yourself with your agent, who you say
is a good agent, but not a spiritual man. He is a businessman. His loyalty is
to business, not to you. So, you are associating yourself with business—which
is the obsession of the masculine paradigm that has ruled for so long. The
masculine paradigm is all about the intellect, about business and making money.
All of the other people are in business suits—so, whether they are male or
female, they are also in the masculine paradigm. This is an aspect of yourself
that doesn’t serve your greater good.”
At this point I interject, “I’ve been thinking lately
that, all of us in the world (certainly in the western world) have been force
fed a belief that, first and foremost, ECONOMY is what matters. Yes, there can
be ecology, IF it serves economy. Yes, there can be community and family and
spirituality and art—but only if it first serves ECONOMY. This is something
that is an illusion that people have all been taught to believe. My new job has
taken me to Toronto and, by coincidence, it put me in the middle of the G-20
summit last week. I walked the streets that weekend and put myself straight
into the middle of the protests—to observe and learn. What I saw were streets
full of young people, trying to change things. They were happy and excited. And
I saw literally 5 to 1, maybe even 10 to 1, police in riot gear for every one
protester. There were 20,000 armed police in Toronto that weekend. An army to
protect the world’s leaders from maybe a few thousand kids in t-shirts… ECOMONY
above all!”
Dr. Bail continues, “Well, this dream is wonderful
because it is personal as well as universal. It is telling you that you need to
slow down—walk at the speed of your feminine unconscious, talk at the speed of
your feminine unconscious. Stop using intellect. The male paradigm uses
intellect. The female uses intuition. Unwind the masculine model of the world,
move around the water of the unconscious.”
“The young woman you admire (and it is good that you
want to work for her) likes these actresses from the East, from China. She
wants to incorporate the Eastern feminine into her new projects. But, as yet,
your best idea is to dress that impulse up in old and tired ideas—old masculine
conceits. It’s trite and your feminine unconscious implores you to do better.”
“This instruction is for both you, the individual,
and, I believe, it is also an instruction for the world.”
COMMENTARY
I think people hold the belief that the world, the
country, will be more or less what it has been in their lifetime. Though
people, on the average, have been to school, students of history will certainly
have heard it expounded that the country—at least the United States—has more or
less been the same. People in America in the main have been content to let
their Congress make the laws, which we all follow.
However, recent events have made it possible, even
urgent, for people to get to see and know what their congressional
representatives say and do and what really motivates the rulers of the
country—even the Supreme Court.
I daresay with the spilling out of the guts of the
political process, a mean and distressing experience, it is almost a maxim that
Congress is unconsciously felt to be the parents who are elected and who will
look after the people (the children) and do whatever is necessary in the best
interests of the people (the children). This is far from the truth. The
Republican Party makes it clear it is interested only in aiding the
corporations and the wealthy and has little interest in the people; witness
Representative Barton, apologizing to British Petroleum for the fuss the people
of Louisiana, Alabama, and Florida made about British Petroleum’s
irresponsibility. He and the Republicans want the U.S. Government, that is the
people, to pay for British Petroleum's reckless behavior.
In other words, if the two parties were seen as the
parents, they would both be cited as careless and abusive and fined and jailed
for their negligence. To follow Republican logic, the children (the people)
would be blamed and made to pay for their parents’ (Congress') almost total
neglect.
So altogether we have a situation that people feel
will continue to exist more or less the same. This crisis of people's lives and
the crisis in the environment is, of course, to be laid at the feet of both the
government and British Petroleum, both of whom have been indulging in glaringly
criminal behavior. A look at this patient session causes us to stop for a long
moment and do a double take. We have been spared the interim between these
continuing disasters for which the people (the children) are paying for their
parents’ profligacy and arrogant selfishness.
At this point there has been a stop, a gap that
remains to be filled in. The dream makes it clear that there is an age of
feminine sensibility coming, one that foremost will look after all the
children—not only the rich ones. The feminine sensibility will also not be in
rivalry with the other party. Both parties have to be concerned with the
children and their well-being.
The dream discerns quite easily that it will not fly
if there is an attempt to play the same "movie" as has played
before—just women playing out the men's parts.
Finally, it is interesting to note that my patient
wears two hats. He is his agent and the businessman concerned with the bottom
line, not the people (children), and he is the spiritual one decrying the
heartlessness of those who are the corporation.
Krugman reminds us that the policies the country
follows are made by men who may consciously be in the grip of bias and fashion.
I add they may be in the grip of their unconscious, and also influenced by the
combined unconscious of the group of which they are a member. Enough is known
about the psychology of groups as to cause anyone who has to abide by the
decision of a group great worry. Added to the difficulty is the fact that group
members, for example G-20 participants, can come from different countries,
different cultures, and different family backgrounds. Yet this diverse group,
in which a number of countries are failing, contains representatives who must
be full of fear, if not consciously then unconsciously. Fear is a slippery
contaminant. It takes everything quickly.
Remember that such groups have historically formed and
decided the policy of whatever the issue might be. Some, like church policy,
have been in effect a long time and it seems not too successfully. In the end
we see that little has changed in the economics of the world. It used to be
customary that kings, feeling the need for cash (gold), would plunder another
region or country citing a variety of reasons (reasons are plentiful), take the
gold, take the women, and kill the men. Today we are civilized. That is,
corporations deplete other countries’ wealth and leave the people impoverished.
Since we are civilized we don't physically kill anyone. The difference between
then and now is in the killing or torturing. However, there may be other ways
this is being enacted. Once poverty sets in and a land is emptied of its
wealth, what life do the people in these countries face?
The ultimate point is that men make the policies and
have done so for thousands of years, with all of the frailties that men contain
in their psyches and character. No matter what their outward stance, what men
make is not of eternity. What men make can be broken or remade.
This idea needs to be in everyone's mind. I think it
is an invaluable gift Krugman gives us by reminding us of the manner in which
policy is made here and everywhere in the world. I must add that the people are
treated like children who are kept away from what the "grownups" are
saying. I would say we are not children and it is clear that the so-called
grownups are not such at all.
Alexander Pope says it in his couplet, "Man
proposes, God disposes."
Always.
Copyright © Bernard W. Bail, M.D.
July
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